Well, they wouldn’t show this on TV, but there are times it’s nice to have the doctor perform the procedure. During my last stay, they needed to insert a catheter. The nurse jammed it in and it stopped. She yanked it out and tried again. I put up with this torture four times, then as she prepared for a fifth onslaught, I told her to stop and call a urologist. She called the supervising nurse who agreed with me. The urologist explained that I had a kink in my urethra, but nurses were not allowed to use the bent catheters (at least in that hospital). He slipped it in very nicely, and I had no problem. However, most of the nurses were quite professional and pleasant. I made it a point of not bothering them, but always asking to explain what they were doing when they had to do something, and they were quite willing to do so.
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You were patient, the nurse was probably very new (or not very good), an experienced nurse would have called her charge nurse to assess the situation. Good/experienced nurses don’t perform what I call ‘search and destroy missions’ something I always emphasize when teaching new nurses. You are your primary advocate—good for you for insisting—bad for her that she did not think to ask for help herself.
