Okay, as a bisexual man in a polyamorous marriage with my husband and two wives, let me clear up a few issues here:
The actual definition of marriage is: the union of two or more consenting adults. How do I know this? Because that is the only definition that accurately reflects world history and practices. The practice of all forms of polygamy (polygyny, polyandry, and polyamory) is found in all cultures historically, and predates preferential monogamous pair-bonding by several millennium. Polygamy is legal in countries that practice Theravada Buddhism (Southeast Asia) and Islam (Middle East). In Western societies, polygamy is common in both the BDSM subculture, as well as the Poly subculture (people who practice polygamy and are not affiliated with a specific religion, i.e., some Mormons practice polygamy, but because they do so as part of a religious observance, are not Poly).
People who are in Gay, Lesbian, or Poly marriages run households, raise children, go to church (or not), are active in the community, pay taxes, and vote. What they don’t have is the same legal status as Heteros.
This point seems to go over people’s heads quite a bit, so let me spell it out in crayon: We are married, and as married people, we wish to have the legal recognition and rights currently reserved for pair-bonded heterosexuals.
I am open to intelligent discussion and inquiry on the pros and cons of this issue. However, any argument counter to this that falls into the category of religious dogma, personal phobia, or “Chicken Little” imaginary damage to children and society, are without merit.
The gauntlet is officially thrown